I fully expect backlash from this blog for the simple reason that the people I'm taking aim at are too freaking ignorant to stop and think about the contents before reacting. They will take it at face value rather than realizing the truth behind my words, do some introspective soul searching and fix the wrongs that they've done.
Dave moved to New York. He's living in Syracuse with me. For those not familiar with Dave, he's my best friend/brother/half my brain. Not everyone agrees with our friendship and that is fine mostly because they don't understand our friendship and in all fairness neither do we. But we accept it without having to explain it. Certain people can't accept it at face value as we do.
Now here's where I break 2 of my own blog rules. I'm going to write about personal stuff here instead of the other blog and I am going to call people out by name.
Dave and I at best have had a turbulent friendship but as much as we've disagreed we have always without fail had each other's back, no questions asked.
Recently Dave had a breakdown of sorts, he hasn't been happy for months. No one, not one person in his immediate circle seemed to concern themselves with this very simple fact. Not one person asked if he was alright. Not one person asked if there was something they could do to help him through it. Not one person looked past their own selfishness to even see that the walls were closing in fast on Dave. Something had to give or Dave was going to crash and burn fast and hard. Didn't anyone notice that Dave, who is a drinker anyways was putting back a case by himself every fucking day?? I'm 881 miles away from him and saw this coming. Dave called me and said it was time for a change, immediate extraction necessary! I hopped a plane, we packed his shit and drove to Syracuse.
I didn't ask him, didn't cry and devise some evil plan to get him here, I don't need his help financially, there was no planning on my part and this was not my idea. Plain and simple do you understand that simple, drawn in crayon sentence, Kim, Tree and Tiff?? Not my idea or plan. Dave is living his life according to his plan, his needs, his wants and his way. This was all dave, I was just the wingman.
Yeah Kim, when it comes to me, Dave will bend himself like a pretzel to help me out if I need it. So will my other brothers. It's called loyalty, look it up. And as I remember it you were the one throwing out ultimatums left and right trying to control his contact with me. How did that work out for you sunshine?? It didn't have to be that way, you made it that way. You made him choose so you can't bitch about his choice. You sabotaged yourself with your own insecurities, not his fault. You don't have to like me, tolerate me or anything else because frankly darling you have never existed in my universe and never will. But you were supposedly Dave's friend when all was said and done. He cared enough about your friendship that he was worrying himself into a tizzy when you got fired, he sent you that Robert Jordan book just to maybe put a smile on your face because you were having a hard go of it. Just because you don't agree with his actions, you dump the friendship. That hurt him. Friends don't have to agree all the time dude. But it's not your place to judge either. You are not a higher power and your life is not so pristine perfect that you can afford to tell Dave where his life is wrong. You support your friends, you don't berate them. Unconditional love, support and loyalty that's what a friend is. Try to think about that please.
Tiff, I really don't get you at all and I don't care to either. You were one of Daves oldest and best friends. You got pissed because he wasn't there at Halloween and had said he would be. Did you know that he had promised me the same thing back in July? Did I throw a tantrum and unfriend him because he was going to see you instead? No. In the end he made the call based on what he wanted to do. Be upset that he lied that's fine but come on, you all have known each other for 20+ years. How many times have you been there for each other through some pretty tough shit. He replaced the hematite that you sent him because the one you gave him broke. You know as well as I do when a charm like that breaks it's for a reason, it's work is done. To ask for it back afteer he had put his energy into it and it broke, yeah I have an idea what you were planning to do and it wouldn't have worked sister. Keep in mind that I am not some Buckland reading, tree hugging Wiccan. And I am slightly pissed that the only reason you had me on Facebook or anything else was to keep tabs on Dave. I honestly enjoyed having an open communication with you because of all the detractors in Dave's life you were the only one that made an effort to speak to me rather than just an assumption and some make believe definition of me. But hey it is what it is and that's fine too. Reconsider your move of banning Dave for life, friends shouldn't ever do that to each other Tiffany.
Tree, you worthless, oxygen thieving,lazy, lying, waste of fucking skin. You go right ahead, cry to everyone about how Dave has left you hanging and wronged you and rendered you homeless. Continue to play the victim in the fairy tale you've created in your own deluded fucking twisted mind. Where have you lived bill free for 6 months? Who gave you a place to stay rent free for 6 FUCKING MONTHS?? WHY WERE YOU NOT SAVING MONEY, WHY WEREN'T YOU LOOKING FOR A JOB INSTEAD OF SPENDING ALL YOUR FUCKING TIME ON THE INTERNET PLAYING FARMVILLE AND POKER YOU STUPID FAT FUCKING TWAT??? Oh my poor back, oh my poor fibromyalgia, oh my poor aches and pains. There are plenty of jobs out there where no lifting is required but you won't put forth the effort. You say you were battered and abused, there are thousands of agencies that will help you but have you put forth the effort to contact one of them?? NO! Because you like being a leeching victim so that you can play off of everyone's sympathy. I have no sympathy for someone who doesn't help themselves. Karma is a bitch, reap it Tree, fucking reap your decisions. If you were on fire I wouldn't piss on you to put it out.
So in conclusion, if you are such a shallow, selfish, heartless person as to not stand by your friend Dave unconditionally as you should as a friend than you were never his friend to begin with. And when he succeeds living on his terms for once instead of by another's ultimatums and rules, don't try coming back.
Strength, Honor, Loyalty.
SPQR
BEX
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